Email marketing, in need of SMTP

Hello,

I recently got into emailmarketing. And i have loads of fresh Dutch addresses.

Now I sent my first campaign with ElasticeMail.com which sent 32k emails. And then stopped due to too many complaints. Within 48-72 hours the will review my acc.

I want to stop using these 3rd party options, and run my own stuff. Or use the service of someone here.

How can I start?